Stiletto

Just a mom raising The Boy (adopted from Guatemala) along with my fabulous husband (MFH). I am a shoe whore, especially of the high heeled variety. Hence, the nickname.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Summer daycare

I haven't had much to say in the past 3.5 months, and now my cup runneth over with posts that need to be written. This old can of worms happens to be foremost on my mind today.

When we moved here almost two years ago, I thought we were finished with daycare. I wasn't supposed to have to work anymore (BWAH HA HA HA). We all know how that panned out. That first summer I was able to work from home, and The Boy stayed home with me.

Last summer I had all kinds of offers from people that were going to take The Boy for a day here and there and keep him busy. Plus, I had him enrolled in swimming lessons for most of the summer, as well as a few week long camps. Well, my mother had him for 99.9% of the time. My almost 80 year old mother. She did very well with him, shuffling him around to his swimming lessons, picking him up from day camp, and then even playing with him so he wasn't sitting in front of the television for eight hours a day. But, let's face it - 80 is getting up there, and while I hope to have her energy and even a grandkid to share it with at that age, it isn't really fair to either of them. My MIL took him all of two or three days, because she had that old dog that couldn't be left alone. He's still alive.

With all this in mind, we decided to enroll The Boy in summer daycare. Fortunately I found one that had space for him. They are structuring their care around weekly theme camps. He will be there for nine weeks to the tune of $155 a week. My mother offered to pay for half, which I won't accept. The square burger corporation where I work does offer subsidized daycare, and I will be reimbursed at 50% in October. Yes, I realize how fortunate I am to have that.

Yesterday My Fabulous Husband informed me that my MIL offered to take The Boy to his swimming lessons a few times in June.

Seriously?

His lessons are at 5:45 in the evening. After daycare and after I am off work.

Thanks, but no thanks.

2 Comments:

  • At 9:15 AM, Blogger Michelle Smiles said…

    My mother in law is all over us to move closer to her so she can help with the kids. I fear it would turn out like yours. Heh. Good luck with summer!

     
  • At 9:15 PM, Blogger Yo-yo Mama said…

    At least your MIL offers her time. My MIL wouldn't know my son if she ran into at the mall, and we live in the same town.

     

Post a Comment

<< Home